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Appreciate the gift of life!

Life has no duplicate! Don't waste any opportunity you get in life to do something good. Always bear in mind that for you to be successful in life you must be intimidated by others including those who you once helped. But remember that you just got to keep doing that good for others. Make others happy and you too will be happy. The choice is up to you!

SUCCESS!

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We all want it in some way. In school or in our careers. In relationships with our children, partner, friends, someone we just started seeing and with ourselves. With our mental and physical health. But what is success? And how do you find success? Let me tell you! “Success means doing the best we can with what we have.   Success is the doing, not the getting; in the trying, not the triumph. Success is a personal standard, reaching for the highest that is in us, becoming all that we can be.” “Success is simple. Do what’s right, the right way, at the right time.” But it not always easy! “Victory is sweetest when you’ve known defeat.” “Success is going from failure to failure without losing enthusiasm.” “You’ve got to get up every morning with determination if you’re going to go to bed with satisfaction.” That's success and when you finally do, you'll be happy you put in every effort to succeed. # NEVER_GIVE_UP ! # YOU_CAN_DO_IT ! E

Is running away the best solution?

Every year, over one million teenagers run away. The reasons? Because of 1. Physical abuse, 2. Sexual abuse, and for others 3. Frequent arguments amongst their parents over matters such as household chores, curfews, choice of friends, and school grades. For others, it is because 4. Their parents thinking and outlook on certain issues does not agree with theirs. Their parents for example might strongly insist that their children MUST always accompany them to their religious meetings and activities, or even restrict their child's association with other youths which of course is not what the child wants. But think of it: Will my running away solve these problems? Well for me, the answer is NO! The truth is that 'Running away solves nothing'. Rachel a 14 year old girl who ran away said ''Running away only creates more troubles for you''. In a book titled My Friend Wants To Run Away, its writer Margaret O. Hyde said: ''A few runaways actua

Coping as the only child!

Being the only child has many advantages. One of those advantages is that you can handpick your close companions with the approval of your parents even when other of your peers find it very difficult to get along with their own siblings. You would even have more time for study, meditation or development of certain skills or talents. Another advantage is that you will have the total attention of your parents. But still when it is too much or excessive, it could make you self-centered. Therefore, parents should learn how to show balance in rendering their attention because it will help you to mature quickly and feel safe whenever you are around adults. But still, the danger of being selfish is very high. To reduce it, You 1. Must learn to always share your things with your friends and relatives. 2. Develop an eye for the needs of other people and 3. Offer them help whenever needed. If you do, people will appreciate you, thereby making your life as the only child far from b

Finding true lasting friends now!

Here are 26 things that can help you detect a true friend. (A)- Accepts you as you are (B)- Believes in "you" (C)- Calls you just to say "HI" (D)- Doesn't give up on you (E)- Envisions the whole of you (even the unfinished parts) (F)- Forgives your mistakes (G)- Gives unconditionally (H)- Helps you whenever you need help  (I)- Invites you over (J)- Just "be" with you (K)- Keeps you close at heart (L)- Loves you for who you are (M)- Makes a difference in your life (N)- Never Judges you  (O)- Offers support (P)- Picks you up (Q)- Quiets your fears (R)- Raises your spirits (S)- Says nice things about you (T)- Tells you the truth when you need to hear it (U)- Understands you (V)- Values you (W)- Walks beside you (X)- Xplains things you don't understand (Y)- Yells when you won't listen and ( Z)- Zaps you back to reality. Yes! You can find a true friend in this wicked world we leave in. Jus

Is it ever possible to remain chaste while dating?

During the period of dating, many youths engage in activities that are not chaste, thereby engaging in premarital sex. That is why we (STARS eMPIRE) has decided to provide you with 8 clear ways to stay chaste while dating. We hope you will make good use of these practical suggestions. 1. Avoid situations that always leads to petting and necking.  2. Do not date alone. Date in groups or you could possibly go on a chaperon.  3. Keep an upbuilding conversation  4. At the beginning of the dating period, tell your partner about your attitudes regarding the limits on expressions of affections.  5. Do not dress provocatively and avoid provocative actions or comments  6. Do not keep long nights  7. Stick to an early curfew  8. If your chastity is in a dangerous position, request or ask POLITELY that you be taken home.  Do not engage in sex premaritally. IT IS DANGEROUS!!! Keep your chastity until marriage when you’ll have the full oppurtunity of engaging in sex as you

FORGIVENESS!

If someone hurts you, just take precautions but don't decide to act in a way that will hurt him or her too. In life, many persons pursue happiness while others try to create it. In whatever you do, let your conscience be your guide. Just because the world is wicked doesn't mean you have to be wicked too, and just because someone hurts you doesn't mean you have to hurt or revenge. Be free with everyone, be forgiving, and be a friend to others. Revenge is meant for fools, but forgiveness is meant for wise persons. Do not be a fool just because of the behaviour of someone, rather be WISE and FREELY FORGIVE. The choice is up to you!